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It’s about to get tougher for bullies of all ages to
get away with physical and emotional abuse.
The Community Oriented Policing (COP) Committee in
partnership with the Wellington County OPP and the
National Crime Prevention Strategy (NCPS) will
launch their Anti Bullying Campaign (ABC) later this
month. The focus will be to bring the message that
bullying in all forms is wrong.
In a survey of high-school aged children, the NCPS
found that 65 per cent of boys and 75 per cent of
girls had been verbally or socially aggressive to
others.
Locally, the OPP have received 68 reports of
bullying of which 46 were assaults, 16 were threats
and 6 were cases of harassment. Bullying may include
hitting, insults, sexual harrassment, threats,
gossip and, more recently, cyber-bullying.
This trend is on the rise according to OPP Constable
Keith Robb, chairman of the Anti Bullying Campaign.
“Kids are more advanced in computer use than
parents,” said Robb. “They have ‘carte blanche’ to
do what they want on computers.”
However, bullying is not limited to a school
environment. Several cases of gang attacks on local
streets and unacceptable behavior at local arenas
have been reported.
The Anti Bullying Campaign will be officially
launched on Tuesday, October 26th at 6:30 p.m. at
the Fergus Community Centre. Guest speakers will
include Dawna Speers whose daughter Monica was
killed by her ex-boyfriend in 1991. Her mission is
to make parents and adults aware of the signs of
bullying.
The evening will also feature several local
community groups including Crime Stoppers, Community
Mental Health, the Wellington County OPP, Community
Oriented Policing and others who can provide
information to educators, group leaders, coaches and
parents about bullying.
ABC administrator Kathy Onifrichuk says the campaign
will bring the message to schools, workplace and
community organizations. Resources have been made
available to members of the public at the Fergus OPP
detachment.
“We want a consistent message delivered to the
schools, and all officers to deal with bullying in
the same manner,” said Onifruchuk.
COP and the Wellington OPP are also in the process
of getting a bylaw passed that would disallow verbal
harrassment by all ages. Bullying is a learned habit
as children look to their parents for examples of
how to treat people. Robb said many adults don’t
realize that they can be bullies too and children
are watching.
“Bullying starts in kindergarten, and they have
learned it before they get to school,” says
Onifrichuk.
There are several different ways in which young
people bully others. Boys tend to use physical
violence while girls tend to gossip or exclude.
Studies also show that bullies tend to be
hyperactive, disruptive, impulsive and overactive.
Robb notes that there are few people who children
can look to for support and this must be put into
place.
“There are a lack of role models in society for kids
to follow. They need that influence. They need to
learn about respect,” he says.
He adds that parents, teachers and members of the
community must respect each other and demonstrate
the correct way to handle bullies.
In 85 per cent of cases, there are onlookers who
stand by and do nothing or only serve to reinforce
the bullying.
He adds that young people should be encouraged to
find the appropriate help and understand that
helping is not tattling.
“There is a great deal of power bystanders have in
order to stop behaviour or encourage it,” said Robb.
The campaign is designed to teach adults and
children that the power to stop bullying lies in
their hands.
The event is co-sponsored by the co-operators, Made
You Look Designs, Thistle IODE, Vic Kelly and
Associates and the Fergus Legion Ladies Auxiliary.
Doors open at 6:30 p.m.
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